Austerity Project, Day 2

Okay, so when I posted about getting teary-eyed at the thought of not doing anything for my anniversary, it obviously touched a nerve. Several incredibly generous friends and family members stepped forward to make sure that Tony and I had a good third anniversary, and I was, as usual, overwhelmed by how wonderful everyone I know is. Say what you will about the state of humanity, people are kind and generous. To everyone who made offers, thank you so much. Just knowing that you thought of me and of Tony when I know all of you have your own struggles and needs was the best anniversary gift I can think of. I promise to pay it back or forward or sideways whenever the opportunity presents. You all make me want to be a better person. (As usual.)

The offer we did accept was made by my family - we have a communal change jar here in the house that we all put money in throughout the year and then we are supposed to use the proceeds for a group activity. Everyone else agreed that Tony and I should take that money and spend it on an anniversary dinner. In fact, they insisted, and Mom already made reservations for us at a very nice place. Sometimes living in a group home can be pretty awesome, I must say.

Today was a pretty mundane day for the budget. However, Mom and I have to go grocery shopping tonight, so we spent last night gathering our coupons and making a detailed list. I like to plan out the meals a week in advance and then shop for the specific items we'll need, along with the staples we go through every week, like bananas and milk. (This drives Mom insane, who would rather just let the spirits take her at the store and when it comes to dinner. Take her out to eat, that is.) My goal is to come out of the store with our share being less than $75, which means I have to spend less than $190 total. For most of you, that probably seems like a horrifying amount. But to feed five adults three meals a day plus snacks and dessert, that's actually pretty good. I'll report back tomorrow. (And for all you coupon junkies, I'll even let you know how much I saved, although you'll be disappointed. I'm not one of those ladies who can save more than she spends. I lack the dedication to the cause and the snazzy notebook.)

Wish me luck!